The Home of Drugs

Sitting in the darkness of my apartment, listening to the sounds of my roommate's boyfriend snoring while sleeping off his beer mixed with the sound coming from the television as I viewed "The English Patient," this memory that I'd once forgotten was revived back to life.  Like a Phoenix anew, the memory came soaring back into the front part of my thoughts, completely blocking out any visual or auditory sensations from the movie.  Perhaps I should stop watching sappy, sad love stories.


*Beep beep*


My mobile peaked my interest as boredom had set in while in the midst of a television marathon.  A sly smile crept across my face I read the text that asked what I was doing, and "I want to see you."  Frantically, I rushed to the bedroom to pick out a suitable outfit that would make me look my best.  After option number 3, I freshened up and stared at the reflection in the mirror.  'This is probably the best it's gonna get,' as I decided to finish and head toward my enjoyment for the night.  Driving there takes 25 minutes, which seems to be a mere second in the time of life, but the thoughts and hopes racing through my mind were running like a bullet searing through my brain made it seem a multiplied amount.


After rapping on his door, the deadbolt was released and he opened the door with a new feistiness in his eyes.  Before the door was even closed, his masculine arm reached around the small of my back, and pulled me up to his mouth as he pressed his warm soft lips on mine.  He then grabbed my hand and pulled me toward the sofa, where I heard noises from the television, but paid no attention to anything other than the beautiful man staring at me.  Sitting down, I decided to take the position of straddling, as I was quite pleased to his reaction.  


The time flew by yet seemed to stand still.  He kissed my neck softly on both sides, then focused a more intent, stern kiss on my left carotid.  My body went limp as electricity shot through my entire body, making my every cell seem to explode with a tingling sensation, much how I imagine shooting heroine feels.  My head rested upon his hard shoulders for what seemed to be 30 minutes for my body, but in reality it was more like 30 seconds.


"Would you like some wine?" He proposed.


"Duh."


We opened the bottle together, still yet to manage a distance between some sort of embrace.  Cabernet Sauvignon flowed as we continued to cuddle and talk while "watching a movie."  


Suddenly, my spidey senses noticed a change in demeanor, and I knew that my favorite part of the night was on the rise.  After putting down wine glass, I leaned in to kiss him, and he pulled his face back playfully.  


"Oh, you're not gonna kiss me, bitch?  It's on!"


The routine that follows varies between wrestling, kissing, holding the other down, flipping top to bottom, kissing, and more kissing.  In this time I always feel like a giddy child, finally getting the piece of candy he's been begging for for days.  Like I'm in a movie that I finally understand because the movie was written for me, and I want to watch it every day.


We move to the bed after the clothes have been removed, and we are wrapped so completely in each other that it seems as if we're trying out for "The Human Centipede 3."  Hands and mouths collide with each others as we grasp and pull to somehow try to get close to one another.  In attempt to better reach what I want, I slide my hips between in his strong thighs.  My mouth plunged into his as if he were going to suck the soul right out of me, and I ran my tongue down his strong body, finding the pressure points of his neck, his well defined chest.  Slowly, I stroked and flicked his nipples with my tongue, making good use of my beard to change the stimulations.  Moaning with pleasure, his legs were wrapped tightly around my back, controlling the movement of my hips as our throbbing cocks were rubbing each others.


Suddenly, almost without even knowing what happened, he lifted my entire and I was sitting on his chest.  Slowly, he caressed the head of my penis with his mouth before engorging almost the entirety inside.  Tossing my head back with a sigh of pleasure, I reveled in the waves of passion that passed through my body.  


It's time, I cannot take it anymore.  I slip back between his thighs and look deep into his eyes before caressing his face with my lips.  My hips rock against his as my dick massages the entry to his ass.  Suddenly, without knowing how or where it came from, I felt him grab me from the side, jerking and pulling myself inside him.  A surge of electricity shot through me like fireworks exploding in my brain as I heard him moan in desire, telling me how great I felt inside as we no longer were two separate people.  


The temperature in the room heightens as sweat glistens on our bodies, combining bodily fluids as we grind and enjoy each other.  The breathing gets heavier, and the sounds get louder until finally I feel an explosion beneath me.  He kisses me like never before, like he would die if my mouth was removed from his, as if I were his life support.  I let myself go to enjoy this passionate embrace, and feel myself swell in excitement before finally unloading myself deep within.  In a heap of exhaustion, we continue to kiss, as I am now laying on him with such force the fear of smothering him emerges.


Together we walk to the bathroom to clean up before sleep.  I returned to bed while he finished, laying to the right side of the bed with my back facing the inside of the bed.  Upon returning from the bathroom, he slid his muscular left arm beneath my neck, and grasped around me with his right arm, clasping my hand and shoving a leg between mine.


"I love holding you," he whispered.  With immediate clarity, I understood the song "Died in Your Arms tonight," and I drifted off to sleep knowing there was no other place in the world I'd rather be.

Distorted Realities

Distortion (noun): A distortion is the alteration of the original shape (or other characteristic) of an object, image, sound, waveform or other form of information or representation. Distortion is usually unwanted, and often many methods are employed to minimize it in practice.


It's been over a year now, and I have been "unseeing" a person of interest.  It was your typical run across a hot person on Facebook, poke, and meet in person.  It wasn't until the physical "poking" happened that shit became hazed like a fog after a cold rain.  Age barriers caused a strain in the beginning, coming from the opposite side.  The fact that I was born when he graduated high school uneased him to the point of stating a relationship would not form.  Nonetheless, this torrid affair continued, and while the mention that we were only a friends with benefits situation was there, my heart felt otherwise.  Time and time again my emotions were fooled into thinking the possibility of a change occurring was soon to be found in the future.  


A mere 2 months into our relationship, a large piece of information was dropped into my lap like the atomic bomb drop in Japan.  Through strain, confusion, hatred, and incessant crying fits, we were able to talk through it and eventually get back to where we once were.  But we were never actually where we once were, were we?  It's come to my attention that once a couple goes through things, it does, indeed, make the relationship stronger.  However, I also believe that it is never forgotten, and always harbors in the backside.  It frightens me to think that I can understand abusive relationships now, because no matter what he did to me, even if it were to possibly give me a fatal disease, the positive benefits he gave me outweighed this.


In the past 2 months, as we neared our 10 month mark, it had come to my attention that something was not going right with my emotional stability.  No matter how much I love to be around him, and with him, the constant let downs and loneliness conquered the rest of my time.  While I still enjoyed being around my friends and having fun, there was a small part of me that I knew was gone, and that it had been taken by him.  Mind you, this is completely my fault, as he was upfront in his intentions, but my silly mind and emotions led me astray.  


Throughout my life I have been known as the heartless one.  The one who refers to children as "it" or "asshole."  I didn't even understand simple emotions, let alone how my body responded to them.  I've spent the majority of my twenties alone, and had no intention on changing this.  All of the sudden, this motherfucker opens his door, and a school bus named Desire hit me right in the face, and made me an idiot.


The question now that lingers in my mind...Is this my fault?  Is this actually what I want?  


It seems so.  The reoccurance of this happening within the latter few years is overwhelming, and the evidence is in.  The district attorney is charging me with stupidity.  My attraction to emotionally unavailable is obvious.  We could go all Freud on my ass and say that I have issues to the lack of a father figure in my life, and that he left me early on.  Perhaps I am trying to find some sort of redemption in myself for this.  Some sort of penance that I apply to myself for my father's wrongdoings.  In the end, the reality of knowing that I want someone to come out of their unavailability due to the realization of how special I am.  Sad, but true.


I know that I could be a great partner.  I've never been offered the chance, but I know if someone found me fit to do so, they would greatly reap the benefits of this decision.  Friends and family tell me that if a man does not realize how amazing I am, then it's not worth fighting for.  While the logical part of me knows this, and I know that if I were looking on the outside of this situation, I would agree, a part of me thinks, if it's not worth fighting for, then what is?


In this distorted reality I feel happy deluding myself that someone loves me, and push out the reality that he does not.  Is this ok?  Is this right?  Maybe I'm not actually happy, but I have nothing else right now to make me happy.  If this were an Easter egg hunt, he was the only egg I found.  It's not as if I stopped looking, but the field I am in has high grass, and it's very hard to find another egg, especially one that's edible.  


In conclusion, if it's fake, but it makes me happy, then I guess that's what I'm going to keep dealing with for now.  Hopefully some day before my demise, I will feel something real, but currently, this is how I deal.  

A Past Reviewed

07.07.12

It's 6:29am on a Saturday morning where sleep has feigned to happen.  My mind is racing like a mad man speeding in his car to end his wretched life.  In attempt to avoid this sleep inhibiting race, I decided to clean out the desk that harbors more junk than I'd like to admit.  Upon this much overdo cleaning, I stumbled on my old journals.  Curiosity peaked as I opened the first notebook to see that it's dated for 2001.  Remembering back that far is hard with this alcohol soaked brain, but through simple age analysis, I discovered this to be my sophomore year of high school.  My memory of this year, as of most my years before becoming an adult, is blocked out sans this being the year I came out as "bi" to my friends. (I'm not certain if the joke was on them or on myself.)  It didn't take but a few scanned entries to realize the amount of disgust I felt toward my former self.  The sophomore version of me literally made use of emoticons and text abbreviations (i.e. "lol") in a journal, not to mention the excessive use of exclamatory punctuations.  So badly did I want to jump through the pages, or H.G. Wells it and build a time machine, simply to cause physical harm to him.  He spoke greatly in detail about people with whom most I am not even Facebook friends anymore, or even remember.  This idiot did make my eyes moisten with one particular entry filled with more hope than any amount of liquor I've put in my liver.  The adolescent said, "I know that someday I'll have my time.  I'm gonna fall in love, be happy, prosperous, and successful.  Oh...the future."  


Future my ass, kiddo.


My years here have accumulated to 27, and I've probably somehow UN-succeeded so badly that I am worse off than ever.  2001 me continued in another post about words that would describe himself.  Six fully-loaded words that sound like the bullshit I would state on my resume' to get a job: 

• proud
• confident
• strong
• determined
• hard worker
• committed

Give me a break.  I wish I could have just half the optimism this kid has.


So this got me thinking...What made me change?  Is this world so cruel and awful that everyone ends up a skeptical pessimist?  Or was it the years of mental illness, instability, and drug abuse?  Personally, I think it's a combination of the two, but one will never know.  One thing that I do know is that at the random age of 27, I realize I am at a crossroads, and while I know I will never be the optimistic, future forward child I once was, I think I will try and open myself up so that I could be maybe a mixture of my two selves.  Perhaps I shall throw myself in a blender with some ice and serve chilled....Oh, but don't forget the tequila, and I shall call this drink


HOPE.